Missing loved ones

The idea of writing this blog came just because I missed my darling so badly on one fine day!!
hehe.. he was out of city for a day regarding his work.. :( (sad feeling)
but basically I hate sad smileys (Serious!)

I will start this blog by dedicating a song to my darling(touching a irukulla :P)




Ok matter ku varuvom..
how many of us really wanna get hurt?? that too by our loved ones?
i hope nobody wants to..
but we, particularly I always get hurt easily... chinnatha ethathu sonna kuda feelings(mixture of sad, anger etc etc) kubu kubu nu pongirum...
i will pity myself..
namakku maatum ipadi en nadakuthunu i will start calculating the sins i made.. hehe

Is this necessary?
I love the quote from a poem in tamil poem written by Kaniyan Poongundranar
"theethum nandrum pirar thara vaara"

which means good or bad whatever happens to us is not in others hand... its totally in our hand and I strongly believe in this..

but most of us blame others for our sad feelings(naanum than :P)
seri blame pandrom.. aparamaachum santhosama irukkama?? illa
we feel for the mistakes done by others... is this correct? {"ada raama!! enna yean intha kalisadai pasangaloda kootu sera vekkara??"}

seri naan conclusion ku varen

Love is happy feeling.. (Love=happy)
missing loved ones is sad feeling...(missing = sad)

we are missing because we love.
we are sad because we are happy

so theoretically we are happy but practically we are sad...
but basically we wanna be happy...
so we have to be happy sad.. not sad sad (Cheeni kum la irunthu suttuten hehe )

enna solla varennaa... miss pandrathayum santhosama miss panlangaren(krrrrrrr thu)
for example, intha video va watch pannikitte miss panna happy a miss panlam




oh ho no net connection or tv to watch comedy show???
athukkum solution vechurukken...
1) neenga "all in all alaguraja" va iruntha odanju pona mantel a epadi seri pannuveenga nu ellathu kittayum kettu kadupethalam ( avangalukku tension.. namakku santhosam)
2)if nobody at home, message anuppunga
3)ungalukku romba pidicha dish a senju ellathayum saapada vekkalam.. (yaaru epadi pona enna nammaku thevai naama santhosama irukkanum)
4)intha blog a pathi romba pugalnthu comment post pannalam :P (at times mathavanga happiness kuda nammaloda happiness than)

if none of the above works out for u, post ur comments... still lot more ideas available.. will post u..

athu varaikkum happy missing loved ones!!!

Note:: loved ones hubby, wife, lover a irukanumnu avasiyam illa.. mom, dad, sibblings, frnds a kuda irukalam.. (just a clarification :P)

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hehe... hope u like it :)
many times we encounter situations like this...
oru vishaytha naama thedi pogum pothu puttukum.. appa namakku sad feeling..
but we laugh at this video instead of feeling sorry...
so I wanna know,
when we lose something, we need to laugh instead of feeling sad OR
we need to feel sorry instead of laughing watching this video?

which one we prefer?

haha hope u didn't understand... thats what i want...

ithukku melayum padikka aasaya iruntha.. carry on.. :)
Happy feeling healing!

Luv,
Kannu